Buying with Confidence: What I tell Every First-Time Homebuyer
Written by Gillian Gooch • May 15, 2025
Buying your first home is exciting — but let’s be honest, it can also feel overwhelming. There are new terms to learn, decisions to make, and emotions that come with such a big step. As a former teacher and now a Realtor®, one of my greatest joys is walking alongside first-time homebuyers and helping them feel confident, informed, and supported every step of the way.
If you’re a first-time buyer (or thinking about becoming one), here are a few things I always tell my clients:
1. You don’t need to have it all figured out — that’s what I’m here for. From pre-approval to closing day, I’ll guide you through each step. I’ll answer your questions (even the ones you think are silly — I promise they’re not!) and make sure you never feel lost in the process.
2. Start with peace, not panic. Don’t let pressure from the market or outside voices push you into a decision you’re not ready for. I believe strongly in trusting God’s timing and moving forward when you feel peace about it — not fear or uncertainty.
3. Get pre-approved early. It’s the first real step in the process and gives you a clear idea of your budget. It also makes your offers stronger when you find the right home.
4. Your first home doesn’t have to be your forever home. It just has to be the next right step for you and your family. I’ll help you focus on what matters most for your current needs and future goals.
5. Ask all the questions. Always. I’m not just your agent — I’m your advocate. Whether it’s something small or a major decision, you can lean on me for honest guidance and patient support.
Buying a home for the first time should be exciting — not stressful. My goal is to help you feel informed and uplifted as you move forward in faith. God doesn’t just care about the big picture — He’s in the details too. And I’m here to walk those details with you.
“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and He will establish your plans.” — Proverbs 16:3
In faith and service,
Gillian Gooch, Realtor®
Gillian Gooch Properties